Deepest sympathy / Joyce Yack Matthew Yacks Mom (another grieving mother )
Please except my deepest sympathy in the loss of your daughter. Also thank you for lighting a candle for our son Matthew and helping us keep his memory alive. We parents are here for each other, because we understand. God Bless you all , and may he give you all a small piece of comfort within your hurting hearts. Thoughts & Prayers, Joyce Yack Close
To Jade's Mom / Jen Phillips
I forgot that mother's day was earlier for you then it is for me here. So I am sorry this is late and after mother's day.
I know how hard mother's day must have been for you for I have already been there. A month and a half after I lost my daughter, I had to suffer through my first mother's day without her. I thought it would be the hardest day but yet I made it through. I like to thing I made it through because Emily was sending me her love and strength. I am sure Jade has done the same for you. In less then a month it will be one year since I lost my princess and I would love to tell you it gets easier but in all honesty it doesn't. You just learn to cope and you learn to survive. Everyday you wake up you will think about her and every night before you close you eyes you will think of her.
I had people tell me time heals and you will eventually start living your life again. I asked them how I was supposed to live my life when half of it is missing. They responded you just do. I think the only thing time does is make it longer since we have seen our angels. It doesn't heal, but we do learn that there are people in our lives that we have to be strong for. If my son weren't here I would have no reason to get up in the morning but he is my reason. He is the reason I get out of bed and he is the reason I am strong. I am sure it is the same for you.
I guess I just wanted to say that I hope your mother's day went as well as it could and I hope you survived it. I am always thinking of you and your daughter. I have e-mailed with your mom a few times and have learned so much about your daughter. She sounds to be a perfect. A perfect little angel.
Our daughters were given to us to lighten our lives, to make us smile, to make us cry and to make us proud. We were priveliged enough to be blessed with daughters who had hearts of gold and who changed our lives forever. When the sun shines in your eyes thinks of it as Jade lighting the world with her smile and sharing her love with all who knew her. I am sure our daughters have become friends and are helping each other through each day. I am sure as much as we are missing them they are missing their mommies just as much.
6 months and missing you more than ever / Nanny Barbara
This Sunday 25th March it will be 6 months since we lost you. How we have all survived i do not know, each day someone who loves you has thought about you and cried, each night as we go to sleep we think about you, then we dream about you and wake up thinking about you.
This world is a much sadder place without you in it. Our lives are much sadder without you, our are broken.
Time is not healing our pain, it is making us miss you more than ever. We would all do anything to have you back in our arms again.
Every breath we take, every move we make, we are missing you.
Missing you / Nanny Barbara
They say there is a reason, They say that time will heal, But neither time nor reason, Will change the way we feel, For no-one knows the heartache, That lies behind our smiles, No-one knows how many times, We have broken down and cried, We want to tell you something, So there won't be any doubt, You're so wonderful to think of, But so hard to be without Close
Goodnite Darling / Cindy Kayde's Mommy Hello Jade sweety just stopping in to say goodnight to you and bring you a pooh poem. Your Mummy and grandma sure do miss you loads. Watch over them always and tell Kaydeeboo that mommy loves and miss her so much ok? I hope you have beautiful dreams tonight darling xoxoxox Cindy
Jade we are missing you / Nanny Barbara
No words I write can ever say How much we miss you every day. As time goes by, the loneliness grows; How we miss you, nobody knows! we think of you in silence, we often speak your name, But all we have are memories And photos in a frame. No one knows our sorrow, No one sees us weep, But the love we have for you Is in our heart to keep. We will never stop loving you Deep inside our heart, You are with us still. There is a place in our heart That no one else can fill; We love you so, Jade And we always will!! Close
Helpless. They both feel helpless. But they each seek their own roles. They have to find a way to cope, To soothe their shattered souls. He wants to take away her pain, And make her safe once more. She wants to share her tears with him, Bare herself to the core. He wants to make it better, And he wants to be assured, That everything will be okay. That their love has endured. He wants to talk some more about their child who has died. She thinks that she's done something wrong, And that is why he sighed. She's crying once again, And she won't get out of bed. He sees her journal perched a top all those books she's read. She sees him go to work and watch TV. She wonders how he does it, How he has the energy. But sometimes, There's a moment, When they're both on the same plane. Sometimes, For just a moment, Their grief seems just the same. It's in those small shared moments that they need so very much, That they find each other reaching, That they find each other's touch Close
To Jade's family / Andrea Smith
My deepest sympathy to you all at this very difficult time. Jade is such a beautiful little girl and my heart goes out to you for your loss. I will say a special prayer for Jade and you all, may she be safe in heaven with the angels and watch over you all. Special floaty kisses to Jade and hugs to you all. God bless
My first christmas without you / A. Very Proud Mummy My first christmas without you sweetheart i am not looking forward too, but i have to make an effort for James and Amy. I have found it so hard to go out christmas shopping without seeing something that you would have loved and that i wanted to buy for you. It didnt seem right buying gifts but nothing for you. I just wanted to lock myself away, curl up in a ball and forget about it all. But i know in my heart you wouldnt want me to do that and that you would want me to make it a good christmas for Amy and for her to have lots of nice presents. So thats what im gonna do but a moment wont pass that i wont think of you and wish that you were here with us, ripping open the presents and getting excited and then choosing which beautiful outfit to wear, but it didnt matter what you wore to me because you always looked beautiful baby. I miss your hugs and kisses so much and would give anything for some now. Its christmas day and i want to run into your bedroom and wake you up and tell you father christmas has been but i cant and the pain is unbearable. So to get me through the day i have to believe you are having fun in heaven and watching over us and that you keep blowing me kisses and i will catch everyone my special little girl who i love so much. xxxxClose
More alike then we realize..... / Jen Phillips (A visitor )
First let me say how very sorry I am to hear about your loss. I can imagine how hard this christmas will be, because I too am spending my first christmas without my daughter. No amount of words will make it any easier. Just know that your daughter will be looking down on you this christmas sending you all of her love.
Jade's grandma found my daughter's site which led me to yours. I was looking at your pictures and even though the girls lived so far away from each other they had much in common. There is a picture of Jade on the carousel in Port Dalhousie, a place Emily loved to go in the summer. I read about Jade and all of things she was my Emily was as well.
It is funny looking at someone so young and seeing the way they are. How do they learn to be so giving and loving to people even ones they don't know. I think it was the way they were brought up. They were raised with love and respect which showed when they were around others.
I am sure our girls are hanging out and having a great time. I am sure they were friends right away and if I know my Emily she has shown Jade all the cool places to play.
Tomorrow when you wake up know that Jade will be sending you all her love and kisses from heaven to you and your family. My prayers and thoughts are with you and I will be thinking about you tomorrow.
OUR LITTLE ANGELS! / Liane Connors ((A Visitor) )Read >>
OUR LITTLE ANGELS! / Liane Connors ((A Visitor) ) I did not know you or your family, but with looking over another little girls memeorial site brought me to yours. So many little angels are taken needlessly from this place on earth, and families suffer and try to deal with the pain this all brings. It is not an easy task but we try to stay strong for the other little ones that are still with us.
During this time at Christmas, mat memoies fill your hearts and never let go of what times you have shared.
My friends daughter, Emily Philips was also taken suddenly at the age of 7 and I know it has been very difficult for everyone, but I think these little angels now keep sending their strength to us who need it the most.
I am very sorry for your loss and as time goes by, may the strength be with you and your family to be able to take one day at a time.
This is to Debbie / Cheryl Ormston (mummy's friend )Read >>
This is to Debbie / Cheryl Ormston (mummy's friend )
Debbie, Just wanted to say that we are always here for you if you ever need anything..even if it is just a shoulder to cry on. We are always thinking of you. We know that this is such a hard time for you, but when you wake up christmas morning, you will somehow find the strength to get through the day. All our Love to you, John, Angel Jade, Amy and James xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Close
Ask her how she is / To My Daughter Debbie (This is for you sweetheart x x x )Read >>
Ask her how she is / To My Daughter Debbie (This is for you sweetheart x x x )
Ask My Mom How She Is
My mom, she tells alot of lies, She never did before. But from now until she dies, She'll tell a whole lot more.
Ask my mom how she is And because she can't explain, She will tell a little lie Because she can't describe the pain.
Ask my mom how she is, She'll say "I'm Alright." If that's the truth, then tell me, Why does she cry each night?
Ask my mom how she is, She seems to cope so well. She didn't have a choice you see, Nor the strength to yell.
Ask my mom how she is, "I'm fine, I'm well, I'm coping," For god's sake mom, just tell the truth, Just say your heart is broken.
She'll love me all her life, I loved her all mine. But if you ask her how she is, She'll lie and say she's fine.
I am here in Heaven. I cannot hug from here, If she lies to you don't listen, Hug her and hold her near.
On the day we meet again, We'll smile and I'll be bold. I'll say, "You're lucky to get here, Mom, With all the lies you told!"
Not Fair, good luck with your peition / Donna Robert Mom To Angie-Robert (Someone who cares )Read >>
Not Fair, good luck with your peition / Donna Robert Mom To Angie-Robert (Someone who cares )
To the family and friends of Jade I send my deepest condolences. There is not many words a person can say to help ease the pain, anger, and confusion when a child's life is taken.
I went on line and read the newspaper article involving Jade and her accident. I am truly sorry. I just want you to know that I agree that Jade's Mom should carry out her work with the petition. SPEED KILLS, and it is a fact! Obvious 1 life was taken, why should they wait until another one is loss.
I would like to see the people who make these decision lose a child who is run over by a vechile in a residential zone, and see how they would feel, and than see what changes they would want made. OR PERHAPS the residential area they live in already has a low speed zone?
It angers me, to know that a driver can not stop their car in a residential area where obviously children are playing because of the speed they are going. This does not mean I don't realize that the drivers who hit children with their cars and kill them don't have to wake up to that thought everyday of their life...but the dead child doesn't have a chance to wake up to any thing.
Perhaps to help with your petition, it would be good if you could get the driver and passenger in the vechile that hit Jade to sign the petition. In all fairness at 19 yrs of age, this driver will be having children of his own, and I am sure he will pray that this never happens to his child. By standing up to the law and explaining that he didn't wake up that morning planning on running over a child, that he was driving at the speed permitted for that area, he has to deal with the horrid events of that day.
I know I am rambling on but it is so sad to know Jade is continuing on her next journey of life at such a young age. I know the pain and hurt a Mother, Father, Grandmother, Grandfather, Siblings, and Friends go through forever...It is not fair, and it is very hard.
I am sure Jesus was with your beautiful Jade, holding her hand, and leading her into a beautiful place where she will never have any more pain, hurt and heart breaks. My daughter Angie loved children, and she has passed away and has left her little boy who turned three yrs old, three weeks after her passing. He has just turned 5 yrs old and I know that if Angie can she will be taking care of Jade and playing with her all the time for you, until you are reunited with her.
Good Luck with the petition, and God Bless you all. Close
a very special little girl / Debbie Ormston (friend of mummy )Read >>
a very special little girl / Debbie Ormston (friend of mummy )
Jade, you are a very special little girl. if tears could build a stairway, and memories a lane, id walk right up to heaven and bring you back again. I wish this could be true. All i hope that lee is looking after you. You are a very special angel and i know you will be looking over mummy, daddy, amy and james. xxxx Close
If you look beyond the darkness, if you look beyond the clouds, there is a little light, which is so small and bright. If you look a little closer, if you look up right above, theres a tiny little angel sending lots and lots of love.
Thinking of you Jade, keep watching over mummy lots of love xxx
Missing you / Nanny Barbara
On the day God took you we thought that we would die we wondered where the time went? we asked a lot of whys?? With people all around us we felt alone inside From all their words of comfort, we couldn't seem to hide, we thought we might be dreaming That we'd wake and find you here, we thought "This can't be happening." As we wiped another tear.
On the day that you were laid to rest our heart broke yet again, we wondered if the pain would end, But mostly, we wondered when?? It's hard to be without you, At times the days seem long, Sometimes we just sit crying, when there's really nothing wrong. we wish we'd had more time, Before your life was done.
We hope your resting peacefully, our precious one Close