Jade Stoner
(1999-2006)
Memorial website in the memory of your loved one
Tributes and Condolences
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Forever Changed  / Nanny Barbara (Nanny)  Read >>
Forever Changed  / Nanny Barbara (Nanny)
Can you see the change in me?
It may not be so obvious to you
I participate in family activities.
I attend family reunions..
I help plan holidayss.
You tell me you're glad to see
that I don't cry anymore.
But I do cry!
When everyone has gone
- when it is safe-
the tears fall.
I cry in privacy so my family won't worry.
I cry until I am exhausted
and can finally sleep.
You tell me you admire my strength
and my positive attitude.
But I am not strong,
I feel that I have lost control;
and I panic
when I think about tomorrow....
next week....
next year.
I go about the routine of my job.
I complete my assigned tasks.
I drink coffee and smile.
You tell me you are glad to see I'm "over"
the death of my loved one.
But I'm not "over" it.
If I were to get over it,
I would be the same as
before my loved one died.
I will never be the same.

At times I think
I am beginning to heal
but the pain of losing someone
I loved so much
has left a permanent scar on my heart.
You tell me that you're glad
to see I'm holding up so well.
But I'm not holding up well.
Sometimes I want to lock the
door and hide from the world.
I spend time with my friends,
I seem calm and collected.
I smile when appropriate.
You tell me
it's good to see me
back to my "old self"
But I will never be back to my "old self".
Death and grief, have touched my life....
and I am changed forever.

Author Unknown
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Hey sweetheart.  / Sarah Rehner (Cousin)  Read >>
Hey sweetheart.  / Sarah Rehner (Cousin)

I'm at a loss for words. I can't think. Everyday I wake up to another day, and every new day is a day that your parents have to go through without you. It's not fair to them that this happened. It's not fair to anyone that you're gone.

It's been two years since you've left us. There were many who thought they couldn't see the light when you left, and some still haven't. Many people greive everyday over how much they loved you, and still love you. If only there was a way you could come back to us. I wish it had been me who had left instead of you. You had your whole life ahead of you. And in an instant it just, vanished.

All I know is many, many people miss you and pray that somehow you will return to us, and our hearts will be whole again. And our beliefs in love and god will be reawakened in our hearts.

I hope you are happy in heaven, playing with your friends, smiling down at your mommy and daddy and sister and brother, because they need it most. I hope you have an amazing time. Protect your family.

We love you.

Your cousin,

Sarah.

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Brief is life but love is long  / Jade Stoner (Nanny and Grandad Stoner )  Read >>
Brief is life but love is long  / Jade Stoner (Nanny and Grandad Stoner )

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal

Love leaves a memory no one can steal

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Miss you  / Nanny Barbara (Nanny to angel Jade )  Read >>
Miss you  / Nanny Barbara (Nanny to angel Jade )

Don't think of her just gone away, her journey has just begun
Life holds so many facets, The earth is only one
Just think of her as resting from sorrows and the tears,
In a place of warmth and comfort, Where there are no days and years
Think of how she must be wishing, that we could know today
How nothing but our sadness, could really pass away
And think of her as living in the hearts of those she has touched
that nothing loved was ever lost, and she was loved so much

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In Loving Memory of my little friend Jade  / Becky Hammerton (friend)  Read >>
In Loving Memory of my little friend Jade  / Becky Hammerton (friend)

There is not a day that goes past when I am not thinking about you. I miss you loads and you will never ever be forgotten. I want to congratulate your family for producing such a wonderful memorial website. When I first saw this site I had tears in my eyes. I looked through all the picture with my mum. I think this is a lovely site.

Love Becky

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In loving memory of Jade Stoner  / Jean Hammerton (Visitor)  Read >>
In loving memory of Jade Stoner  / Jean Hammerton (Visitor)

In one way I know what you and your family are going through as I lost both my Mum and my Dad in the space of a year between them.  It is not the same as loosing a child of such a young age. Jade was such a lovely child and you should be proud of yourselves for bringing up such a beautiful girl. think of every day that she lived as a bonus and never to be fogotten.God bless you and your family. Jade will always be watching you and making sure you and your family are all well.

Love Jean

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In Loving Memory of my little friend Jade  / Becky Hammerton (Friend)  Read >>
In Loving Memory of my little friend Jade  / Becky Hammerton (Friend)

Although I am now at Highcliffe Comprehensive School I shall never forget your laughter, your impishnes and your love of life, my Dad and I visited your stone today, we left a card and some tears as you should have been here,this Easter is sadder for your loss,You are always in my thoughts. I will never forget you.

Lots of Love from Becky aged 12

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THINKING OF YOU FOR RESURRECTION SUNDAY  / CATHY~MOM OF DAVID GIRAUD (VISITOR)  Read >>
THINKING OF YOU FOR RESURRECTION SUNDAY  / CATHY~MOM OF DAVID GIRAUD (VISITOR)

IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS TODAY AND EVERY DAY~~

GOD'S SON HAS RISEN

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Not Forgotten  / Ivan Squires (Nannys Workmate )  Read >>
Not Forgotten  / Ivan Squires (Nannys Workmate )
Just to say that after all this time you have not and will not be forgotten. You are still in our hearts and minds and your legacy will live on for many generations to come. It was a pleasure to have known you at your Nanny's work and I am glad I met you. Until we meet in heaven, your friend Ivan. Close
Just to let you know...  / Jo (Friend)  Read >>
Just to let you know...  / Jo (Friend)
...you are all never far from our thoughts. With all our love, Jo and Family xxxx Close
THINKING OF YOU FOR VALENTINES DAY SWEETIE~  / CATHY~~MOM OF DAVID GIRAUD~~~ (VISITOR/WHO CARES )  Read >>
THINKING OF YOU FOR VALENTINES DAY SWEETIE~  / CATHY~~MOM OF DAVID GIRAUD~~~ (VISITOR/WHO CARES )
MAY GOD SURROUND YOUR LOVING FAMILY WITH HIS LOVING ARMS AND GIVE THEM STRENGTH, COMFORT AND PEACE IN THE COMING YEARS~GOD BLESS YOUR TENDER HEARTS!!!

CATHY GIRAUD ( DAVID'S MOM )

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For Jade. x  / Angel Caitlin Williams Mummy (none)  Read >>
For Jade. x  / Angel Caitlin Williams Mummy (none)


 Twinkle twinkle little star how I wonder where you are
up above the world so high you're now a bright star in the sky.
With love to you all Stoner family, God bless you all. xxxxx

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You have done a wonderful thing  / Peter Thake   Read >>
You have done a wonderful thing  / Peter Thake

I just wanted to say how much I admire all you have done to raise awareness of the need for organ donors. Your story is tremendously moving and will positively increase the number of registered organ donors. Publicising it in this way is a very brave thing to do and will save lives. That is a wonderful thing to do, and a fantastic legacy for Jade.

My life was saved by a heart transplant in 2005 and I want you to know that anyone who receives such a precious gift will always be grateful to their anonymous benefactor. Not a day passes when I do not thank my donor and their family, and I am sure the same will be true of the many people whose lives Jade has transformed.

I am sure Jade would be proud of you all. 

Pete x 

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Debbie I saw you on Good morning!  / Angel Caitlin's Mummy (another grieving mum )  Read >>
Debbie I saw you on Good morning!  / Angel Caitlin's Mummy (another grieving mum )
I saw you Deb, on Good morning with Phil and Fern this week. you were so brave I admire you so much sweetheart. I recognised the pictures of you laying with your baby angel and I thought I know that picture I've seen that on 'library of life' and then it clicked who you were. To go on and talk about Jade and the organ donations made me cry for you, both with pride and also because I know how you feel everytime you wake up another day without her. You are so strong hun! Well done for that you were fabulous putting it all across the way you did.
We were all ready to donate Caitlin's organs to save more lives but all her organs began to fail as they were attacked by the virus, we were told they could not be used to help anybody at that point, but like you say, what an amazing thing to do, to give life to so many people. Those people will never forget that for as long as they live.
anyway sweetheart, love to you and all your family, take care.
Lorraine,  x(Caitlin's mummy)x  Close
A true Angel  / Michelle Hough (no relation )  Read >>
A true Angel  / Michelle Hough (no relation )
My daughter has Cardiomyopathy and Jade you have given me hope and inspiration for her, you have given me a future. You have changed the world little princess. Thankyou Close
INSPIRED / Carly Yildiz (none)  Read >>
INSPIRED / Carly Yildiz (none)
i just want to say that i saw jades mum on this morning today and felt truly saddened yet truly inspired so much that i straight away went on to the nhs organ donation site and registered as a donor and i ope that everyone gives it a thoght as its a very worthwhile and wonderful thing to give other people a chance to live x Close
Beautiful girl  / Teresa Wood   Read >>
Beautiful girl  / Teresa Wood
I just felt compelled to write, I am sorry for your loss,  I have a 7 year old son and when I read your story in the Daily Mail, I cried and cried, I am still crying now.  I kissed your daughter's picture before I went to bed last night and told her I hope that she is happy somewhere, I know this sounds very cliched and I don't know why it has affected me so much.

I looked for the website and what a beautiful little girl.  I do not know if you believe in god and I don't know if I do but I just hope that she is somewhere around you.

From the photographs you have on your website, what a lovely lovely family you are.

I don't know what to say but I know that definitely I will be obtaining an organ donor card.

God bless xxx Close
Condolences to wonderful parents  / Julie Cooper (None)  Read >>
Condolences to wonderful parents  / Julie Cooper (None)
Thinking of Jade's wonderful parents, family & friends. We lost our lovely 17 year old daughter Hazel 05/11/07, she passed away in her sleep. Results inconclusive. Take care luv Julie, Jon & familyxx Close
Such a brave famil  / Ursula Hulme (none)  Read >>
Such a brave famil  / Ursula Hulme (none)

Not one day goes past without thinking of the family who donated their child' heart to my daughter.  You are such a wonderful family for allowing the lives of other children to carry on.  My daughter was six months old when she had her heart transplant, of which without she would have not seen her first birthday, she is now a healthy lively two year old.  I have much admiration for donors who have to make such decisions to make.
Jade continues in the lives of others and I hope this is some of comfort to you.  

Best wishes 
Ursulax

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Precious Memories  / Kathleen Gutteridge (None)  Read >>
Precious Memories  / Kathleen Gutteridge (None)
What a truly inspiring webpage you have created in memory of your darling Jade. I also saw the photo of mummy & daughter together & it just broke me to tears. I too have lost a daughter, my newborn baby, in January 2001, almost 6 yrs ago in England. I miss all the promises that a new baby brings & I have missed what would have been, 6 years of her life. What an incredible blessing your Jade was in only 7 short years. Thankyou for the privilage of reading your story, seeing your personal photos & highlighting to me the urgency of organ donation. Heartfelt sympathy & love to your family.

Kathleen 
Christchurch
New Zealand
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